detachment – A Kintsugi Life

Living with open hands in the face of uncertainty

Kenetha Personal growth May 20, 2020May 30, 2026detachment, joy, patterns, peace, practice, relationships, uncertainty

When I am detached from something, I can still care and feel and engage and have preferences, but I no longer cling to any of those and no longer try to force the person or situation to fit my idea of “how things should be.”

Embracing the inner observer

Kenetha Transformation October 28, 2015May 30, 2026awareness, compassion, detachment, mindfulness, observer, perspective, transformation, witness

I’ve experienced quite a bit of deep transformation over the last six years or so, and one of the biggest keys to creating and maintaining the changes that have made up that transformation has been my deepening relationship with my inner observer.

What I’m learning from computer hackers

Kenetha Personal growth October 29, 2014May 30, 2026choice, detachment, emotions, self-care

hands on the keyboard of a laptop computer

When hackers attack my website, it’s not personal. It’s about them and their desire to be destructive. It’s the same thing when people try to hack their way into my mood. It’s up to me to put systems in place to protect myself and to remember that it’s not about me anyway.